Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7972410
If you are merely about the fringes from the bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch herself or himself or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You've got to be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the case of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to learn what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end to what you can do.
