Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3956528
If you are merely on the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, according to what you want to complete and how comfortable your lover is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch herself or himself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end to what you can do.
