Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play4091638
Whether you are merely around the fringes from the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch themselves or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, your body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
