Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play6776868
If you are merely on the fringes of the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your companion is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless since your imagination. If you play it safe, and be sure your partner recognizes that you love them and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.
