Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play6168680
Regardless if you are merely about the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
